A couple weeks ago I was having a really rough day. Things were blowing up at work, the kids were home frome school and were fighting, I lost some important papers that I couldn’t find, it was like everything that could have gone wrong did. This worst part and most embarrassing part of the day is that I yelled so hard at my boys to STOP FIGHTING that I literally peed in my pants in front of all of my boys. UGH!  I couldn’t believe what had happened. I think this experience has to be at the top list of the most embarrassing things in my life. I thought Oh My God, how could this have happened? Am I some sort of monster? How has it come to this? I reached my witts end and felt like I was at rock bottom. After the events, I locked myself into my bedroom and cried in my chair and asked God to help with this chaotic family environment I had created. This madness needs to stop.

Later that day, I participated in an amazing session with my Priestess Sisters from my class. The love, acceptance, understanding and positive energy that I received from them was absolutely amazing. It was like giving myself the ability to just relax, simply be and listen to the message God was sending to me. After doing some deep reflection and journaling, I found this poem below “Children Learn What They Live”.

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When I think to my childhood, my parents wanted the best for me, but I felt like I lived in a world with fear and judgement. I made choices to do things out of fear of not pleasing them, or fear of making a mistake rather than out of love. I thought my God, what have I created for my own family?!? Now I have seen this poem before, but when I went to sleep that night, the following morning I woke up so completely filled with LOVE. I wanted to eliminate everything to do with FEAR and ANXIETY and just focus on LOVE.

Last month I shared about the most amazing transformation journey I have been on. I would like to begin sharing some of the highlights and lessons learned from my experience. Some of you might be thinking, I can’t believe she wrote about such an embarrassing moment. Sometimes we have to feel the pain and know that if we truly embrace the feelings, there is something to be learned and enlightment will come on the other side. What I have learned is that I need to be me and not be ashamed of who I am, what I have done, or what I haven’t done. My focus is on LOVE and embracing my future in my truest self. It is through that lense I will be able to live the life described in the poem above. LOVE God, LOVE myself and extend that LOVE to others.

The weekend of March 7th we celebrated International Women’s Day and as always it is an amazing experience to be in the presence of so many wonderful inspirational women.   Some of you might have had the opportunity to participate in a event celebrating women, but for those of us that did not get the chance, I wanted to share a few highlights from the Accenture International Women’s Day event I attended.

The keynote speaker was Arianna Huffington, who was interview by Gayle King.  One message that stood out, was about the importance of taking breaks. We are so busy with work, family, house, life, etc… that we rarely take the necessary time needed to SLOW DOWN……. If you think of the typical workday, our mind is spinning from the time we walk in the door until the time we leave the office. (whether your physically go into the office, or work from home) Some people work straight through 8 – 10 hours a day, and don’t take the necessary time to eat healthy or take a much needed break in the middle of the day. We have this belief that we will get more done if we work straight through, we don’t have the time to take a break.

RestingArianna encouraged us to take advantage of the benefits of REST. Her company has instituted a “Nap Room”. At first people thought the concept was kind of strange, but now she said that the nap rooms are full and people are taking advantage of giving their bodies a break to breathe, rest and relax. Could you imagine a nap room at an Accenture office?

We all know rest is important, but why don’t we take advantage of it and give ourselves the break that we really need. Studies have shown that taking a break and resting our bodies actually gives our body a natural boost of energy. It’s often times better than a candy bar or soda in the afternoon. So the next time you feel yourself being sluggish and you think to head for a drink or a snack, next time take the opportunity to close your eyes and rest for 10 minutes.

Move away from your computer, close your eyes, listen to your favorite music, look outside and be in nature, just be still, take a nap. Let your mind rest and rejuvinate and see how you feel.

In addition to the great reminder to REST, there were a few other inspirational quotes that stood out that I wanted to share with you. These are always good reminders.

– Don’t self select out

– Never eliminate yourself

– Invite yourself to the leadership party

– Resentment is a poison you dirnk expecting someone else will die

– Start Now

– Don’t get furious, get curious

– Take time to rest

At the end of the day, when we think about our career and about life, the message is don;t sit back and watch and expect someone to take care of you or blame someone else for your challenges, invest the time to take care of yourself.

With the number of health issues on the rise and the increased amounts of research on food intolerances being a potential root cause, many more people are moving towards living a gluten free lifestyle. If you are interested to learn more about what is happening to the wheat in our nation, stay tuned for a future blog with a CLIFF NOTE version of the book Wheat Belly.   A local professor in town Dr. William Davis had one of his students write a review of the book. This 2 page overview really gives the highlights of the book and how wheat has been found to be a culprit in many of the health issues that we face as a society today.

If gluten intolerances are really a contributing factor in many health issues, how does one begin to stock up their home with ingredients so they have them on hand? Here are some quick handy tips that you can use to get started.

Top 10 Staples for your Gluten Free Pantry

1. Dried Beans and Canned Beans for backup

2. Organic Canned tomatoes, both regular and fire roasted

3. Non-Dairy Milks like Almond and Coconut, unsweetened and plain

4. Boxes of gluten free stock for back-up (Kitchen Basics) – be sure to check your labels NOT all are gluten free

5. Organic Oils- Extra Virgin Olive, Olive, Coconut, Grape seed, Canola

6. Dried Herbs and Spices checked to be gluten free – (I like Penzeys Spices, or you can grow your own)

7. Sweeteners- Agave, honey, maple syrup

8. Rice and Quinoa

9. Vinegars- red wine, champagne, ume plum, sherry, balsamic

10. Gluten Free Pasta

Stay tuned for other gluten free friendly tips and recipes to support your journey to gluten free lifestyle.