March 16, 2021

Managing Radiance Energy Leaks

Radiance energy leaks happen when a person is not in full alignment with the fullest expression of who they are.   There are MANY ways that energy leaks occur and if they are not managed, an individual will continue to give their power away without realizing it.  It’s like running an old pattern over and over again.  Individuals must learn how to identify what is getting in the way of the fulfillment of their desires.

The challenge is, that most people have multiple energy leaks and it can be overwhelming to identify where to begin.  I would like to encourage you to follow this four-step process in learning how to manage radiance energy leaks.

STEP 1 Become Aware of Your Radiance Leaks
STEP 2 Identify the ones that resonate the most with you
STEP 3 Review what it is costing you and what the payoff is
STEP 4 Decide which of the 5 items is the MOST IMPORTANT for you to address

A key step in the process is not just identifying what it is costing you, but to also define the payoff being received for allowing the leak to keep happening.  I remember watching Dr. Phil years ago and every time he would counsel a guest, he would tell them that the reason they were not changing their behavior was because there was a PAYOFF they were getting.   You must acknowledge that piece otherwise, the pattern will never be changed.

The truth of the matter is that all humans have energy leaks.  If they go unmanaged, life can feel overwhelming, stressful and chaotic.  When you have tools available to manage your energy, you can learn how to stop energy leaks and more fully step into your own power.

Here is a small sampling of different types of Radiance Energy Leaks

BEHAVIORS of OTHERS

  • Tolerating behaviors that drain you
  • Tolerating behaviors that trigger you
  • Blaming others
  • Criticizing others
  • Listening to others complaining
  • Letting others walk all over you
  • Say yes to others when you don’t have time
  • Ignoring stuff that triggers you
  • Allowing unacceptable behavior
  • Teaching people how to treat you
  • Conflicts with loved ones

SELF-DEVELOPMENT

  • Criticizing yourself
  • Striving for perfection
  • Blaming yourself
  • Not getting your needs met
  • Not asking for what you want or need
  • Over-giving
  • Not knowing how to receive complements
  • Being too masculine
  • Being too controlling
  • Gossiping or complaining
  • Whining or colluding
  • Not having any boundaries
  • Feeling competition
  • Not doing what you are passionate about
  • Being TOO independent
  • People Pleasing
  • Trying to be a Good Girl

EMOTIONAL HEALTH

  • Closing off your heart
  • Stuffing your emotions
  • Being too needy
  • Not healing your past
  • Emasculating men
  • Not connecting with women in your life
  • Not knowing & using the love languages
  • Hiding your true thoughts and feelings
  • Not speaking your truth
  • Beliefs that you are not enough
  • Beliefs that you are not deserving or worthy of love and abundance
  • Feeling unsafe and unprotected

TIME

  • Not having a plan
  • Plan too much & no time for spontaneity
  • Overcommitting or overscheduling
  • Working too late
  • Not delegating
  • Doing everything yourself
  • Watching too much TV
  • Scrolling too much on Social Media
  • Procrastinating
  • Wasting time
  • Reacting instead of planning
  • Not giving yourself enough “Me- Time”
  • Saying yes when you mean no
  • Not making quick decisions

PHYSICAL HEALTH

  • Not getting enough sleep
  • Not getting enough to eat
  • Not taking vitamins or supplements
  • Using chemicals in your household
  • Gaining weight
  • Overindulging in food
  • Getting sick
  • Not cooking enough at home
  • Not taking time for meal prep
  • Drinking too much (sugar or alcohol)
  • Not getting enough exercise

PLEASURE

  • Not having enough sex
  • Not having enough physical touch
  • Not loving your body enough
  • Lack of self-pleasure practices
  • Not enough snuggling or gentle touch
  • Not having a morning routine
  • Not hugging
  • Being afraid to touch your body
  • Not enough orgasmic play
  • Not enjoying sexual intimacy
  • Only pleasing the man
  • Not moving your body enough

MONEY

  • Spending too much
  • Not investing in yourself
  • Not having a budget
  • Not seeing where your money leaks are
  • Running up credit card debt
  • Overindulgence
  • Lack mentality
March 8, 2021

How Radiance Energy Leaks Sabotage You From Achieving Your Desires  

Radiance Energy LeaksWe have been talking about desire and how most people unfortunately sabotage themselves without realizing it.   We have these amazing soul-filling desires that light us up, but so many times, it can feel as if it is taking so long to see our dreams come to fruition.

The truth is our desires come from the depths of our soul.  When we dance with our desires, we feel alive and shine our light into the world.  Our radiance and light are our greatest gift.  When we are in resonance with love, our love tank is full and we are fueled up with so much love, that our energy is bright, shiny and contagious.  You don’t have to search for clients, happiness or love, because you are a beacon of love and magnetize that love and light back to you.

However, in the hustle of everyday life, we tend to dull our own magic and light.  This is what gets us into trouble.  When we look to others to fuel ourselves up or we continue to deplete our energy, we find ourselves completely drained and burned out.  Most of us LOVE helping others and feel a sense of inner joy and peace when we can to help someone else.  I am not denying that or telling you NOT to do that. However, I want you to become aware of other places you might be leaking energy where you are not able to fully give in the way you desire because you keep leaking energy out and have not refueled it.

A “radiance energy leak” is anything that costs you more energy than it gives you back.  ( i.e. TIME, MONEY, PHYSICAL HEALTH, EMOTIONAL HEALTH, SELF, PLEASURE and BEHAVIORS OF OTHERS) . It is something that depletes you of your energy.  These leaks can rob you of the joy, happiness and pleasure you desire and deserve to have in your life.

If you resonate with any of these Radiance Energy Leaks then you are not experiencing the fullest resonance of LOVE that you possible could.  These energy leaks get in the way of you experiencing the LOVE you desire in your relationships and they also get in the way of you fully stepping into the fullest expression of you and your business.  I encourage you to identify which areas seem to stand out for you.  Don’t worry or freak out that you have more than you thought. This is an awareness tool.  While you might be making time for “self-care practices”, I want you to become aware of additional places where you might be leaking energy and didn’t know it.   Once you become aware of these areas, you can learn different tools and techniques that will help you to reset or boost your energy levels and plug up those leaks.