HOW TO CREATE TRUE LOVE and PARTNERSHIP
If you really want to create true love and partnership in your life, you must begin by being in resonance with the consciousness of love. It is learning to see the beauty, love and joy in everyone and everything, even when so called, “bad things” happen and not beating yourself up when things don’t go as expected.
In order to create this resonance of love, we must do more than “self-care” for ourselves. Yes, making time for us is important and listed below are 30 simple and easy things you can do to focus on your physical, mental and emotional self-love practice. While these are all wonderful things you can do for yourself, the goal is not to pick 3 things a day and check them off the list. The intention is to keep love in the forefront of your mind and to bring love into every moment of every day.
Having a self-care morning practice is extremely important as it sets the tone for the day and having a self-care evening practice is wonderful as it allows you to relax and wind down before you go to sleep at night, so you can obtain a peaceful sleep. We must not forget it is times during the day when everyday life activities happen that we need to keep LOVE in the forefront of our minds. We must remember the simple little things that bring us joy, happiness and pleasure in the precious moments of our day, not just during our “planned self-care time”.
| PHYSICAL | MENTAL | EMOTIONAL |
| Drink herbal tea | Read a book | Buy yourself flowers |
| Take a luxurious bath | Listen to music | Say affirmations to yourself |
| Go out for a nice dinner | Make a vision board | Keep a gratitude journal |
| Get a manicure or pedicure | Learn a new skill | Light your favorite candle |
| Diffuse some oils | Take a walk in nature | Breathe and Meditate |
| Cook your favorite meal | Turn your phone off | Journal & reflect on the day |
| Exercise | Listen to a motivational quote | Call a friend |
| Get a massage | Do a fun project | Send a thinking of you text |
| Snuggle or a hug | Paint, draw or write | Make a candlelight dinner |
| Play with kids or dog | Sing. Dance or laugh | Go on a date |
To experience any great relationship, you need to cultivate the relationship and make time for each other. If you want to build relationships with customers, you make time for them. If you want to have a great relationship with your partner, you need to set an intention and put in time and effort daily. The same goes with being in resonance of love. You need to set focused intentions to have an epic love affair with yourself daily. When you focus on living a life of love, you begin to radiate that love in all that you do. It is not our partner’s job to make us happy and to remind us of how amazing we are. It is OUR JOB to love ourselves so much that our love is overflowing and inspiring to others.
When you LOVE who you are at your CORE, your radiance shines so bright, that others are inspired by the love you exude in this world.